Myths About Singapore Malays
Let's face it. Hatred towards the Malays is still very much alive on the Internet. Despite all the uproar over the convicted racist bloggers last year, many are still finding sadistic solace in overseas websites and spurious blog sheets. The question is, how do we even begin to dismantle what is historically one of the toughest barriers towards total Racial Harmony in Singapore?
There has bee much effort towards the propagation of Racial Harmony in this island. For the past few Ramadhans, non-Muslim members of the community have taken time to break bread with their Muslim friends. Several mosques in Singapore have even allowed access to restricted sections of the prayer hall to visitors, all in the name of fostering greater understanding and accord amongst the diverse communities here. We certainly have made commendable strides and the efforts should continue.
But the lamentable truth is, there's still a handful of Singaporeans out there whom we have failed to reach. Take a quick stroll through many of Singapore's popular online forums and you will be bound to find a thread on Malay-bashing.
I hate to say this, but the convicted bloggers who made racist remarks against Malays and Muslims are just the proverbial tip of the hate iceberg. If we continue to expose our youngsters a to a constant diet of hate literature and deplorable half-truths, what kind of leaders will we have in the future?
I have been observing these racist individuals for several years now and I come to the conclusion that this chasm of intolerance exists because of several myths that people have been carrying regarding the Malays in Singapore.
Clarifications of these myths will not magically make everyone see eye to eye on a same racial plane, but it is my hope that they might just be the first step needed in dispelling the hatred in certain individuals.
Myth: Malays Receive Free Education
One of the sore points many Singaporeans on the Internet have regarding our Malays is the notion that we are receiving “free education” from the state even through polytechnic and university.
Free education for indigenous people is a legacy brought about by the British to protect the original inhabitants of a country. It is still widely practised in other Commonwealth nations such as Australia and New Zealand where the aborigines are fully subsidised in tertiary institutions.
However the legacy for tertiary fees has been dismounted by the Government since 1991. While students coming from households earning less than $1500 a month will be put through a subsidy programme via Mendaki ( a Malay version of the Chinese CDAC and Indian SINDA), the majority of Malay students in polytechnics and universities today are there on tuition fees fully paid for by their parents. Be rest assured that your Malay countrymen are working and saving just as hard as you are to support their children's tertiary educations.
Myth: Malays Will Betray the Country for the Neighbours in War
I am not sure how this misconception came about but having served my NS stint in the Army with good buddies of all races, it is a myth that puzzles me as much as it bereaves me.
Some time in April this year, a member of the ewadah forum posted an informal poll meant to be answered by Muslim Singaporeans who served in the Army. The question was “If Singapore goes to war with Malaysia, will you shoot a fellow Malay-Muslim from the enemy side?”
Several people responded to the poll. ALL responded in the affirmative. To me, the results are hardly surprising. In Islam, fighting for one's country is one of the most exalted forms of Jihad.
History has also shown that Malays are loyal to their country and its people first. Race will only come in second. When Tunku Abdul Rahman invited Malays from Singapore over to Malaysia to enjoy the vast Bumiputra privileges during the separation, our Malays in Singapore largely remained loyal to the nation and refused to budge.
Loyalty of the Malay race to this country and its people should never come into question, ever.
Myth: Malays are a Druggie Race
Another popular misconception is that Malays are a druggie race and largely are a liability to the society.
Granted, this would have been accurate in the 80s. I make no apologies for the ignorance of these people during that era. They were an eyesore and a source of huge embarrassment for the Malay society.
But the community has made great improvements with the help of the country's leaders and evangelical activists within its own ranks. According to statistics from the CNB, Malays are no longer the No. 1 problem race when it comes to narcotics. It has been that way for the past few years.
Myth: Malays are Lazy
Historically and culturally, Malays have always had a good life. Unlike their counter parts from China and India who had to toil the soil and endure extreme climatic forces just to ensure their survival, Malays never had to endure these hardships much. Everything that you throw into the fertile soils of the Malay Peninsular, will sprout into a healthy plant within a few months. Unlike the Chinese in China, growing food was never much of a problem nor was it a matter of toiling. Leisure and quality time with the family became a very much entrenched way of life within the Malay community.
Unfortunately these civilizations came on a collision course when the Chinese started migrating into the Malay lands. When the Chinese came, they brought along their hard-working and industrious ways that has been so much a part of their life for thousands of years.
Naturally the Malays soon found themselves behind, unable to break out from the norms that their forefathers have lived over the centuries. To make things worse, the British continued to shower the indigenous Malays with various concessions, further lullabying them into an existence of complacency.
This is popularly regarded as the reason for the notion of “The Lazy Malay”.
But let it be known that ever since Singapore separated from Malaysia, our Malays here have been growing up in a separate ecosystem than their Bumiputra counterparts. Having lived and breathed just like the other citizens of the land and void of special privileges, the younger generations of Malays here have developed their own variant of a Malay DNA.
Malays here have given rise to its fair share of President Scholars, PSC Scholars and other prestigious graduates. In fact, Malays in Singapore have held the record for being the most academically improved when compared to other races at various educational levels including the polytechnics and universities. Our youngsters are hungry for success and chasing the Singapore Dream, just like the other youths of Singapore.
On the economic front, we have also produced our fair share of millionaires. Salleh Marican , the owner of listed company Second Chance Holdings and Datuk Zain the owner of Prestige Marine Services are just two figures in the Malays society who have made headlines recently and done the country proud. Several other millionaires could be mentioned but it would take too much space in a short article such as this.
Laziness is an attribute that exists in every race and creed. It is unfair to label Malays as still being lazy just because you keep seeing the same group of Malays hanging out at the void deck. I am sure someone somewhere can point you the way to a group of youth from other races who are wasting time in a similar manner.
Towards Racial Harmony
Total racial harmony may be something of an utopian dream. Granted, the author acknowledges the fact that there is no nation in the world where even the slightest wisps of racial prejudices are not present. But it is my wish that the dispelling of these popular myths, which have been such popular ingredients in online Malay-bashing, would somehow take us a step or two towards greater tolerance amongst the races here.

43 Comments:
Singapore is unique as we call ourselves Singaporeans but linked closely to our roots.
Looking at many countries in the world, I am glad I am born in Singapore with healthy interaction with all races and live in harmony.
Understanding of different cultures is key to racial tolerent. I hope everyone has an open mind to look at different races and eliminate the doubts by trying to understand them.
As we can see from history, different dialect Chinese groups are fighting against each other even they are all Chineses in the 1960s Singapore.
The world is flat and we should make this world a better place in which to live in.
I wish to point out that the issue of loyalty is not a clear-cut, black or white issue. Allow me to post the following question :
Are you prepared to hurt Muslims elsewhere in order to uphold te political interests of the Non-Muslim majority ? I am NOT prepared to do that ! Period. I am not going to hurt my family in Malaysia, Indonesia etc just because of Singapore. In any case - I doubt that the Chinese majority in Singapore will do that either.
Thanks for your wonderful posting.
I have found a video about how racism occurs and its self-fulfiling nature:
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=a+class+divided
It is called a class divided. You don't need skin color to discriminate against people. You can discriminate people by hair or eye color and achieve the same negative effect.
There has never been truth that there is a superior race. People just need to be put in right environment to perform well. You're right and brave to identify that some difference off the starting blocks can be due to differences in background not race....just like today in University 60% of our top students are from India or China because they are specially chosen and especially diligent due to poorer background.....nothing to do with race.
I'm sure anyone put through our rigorous education system will tend to over achieve in Western universities.
Diversity is our strength not our weakness. We should all be happy there are different cultures and races living together in our society. America is a melting pot of people from every other country in the world, it is also the world's most powerful and affluent country. I stayed in California for years and there are more non-whites than whites, the whole society is so vibrant due to the diversity...it is one of the most desirable places to live and work.
hey lucky singaporean, thanks for the video.
yes, sad but even here in singapore we have people who still think that their race is the more superior and hard-working one. its true. a sad, sad generalisation.
that is why i applaud this posting for it at least shows that malays too have had their share of scholars and millionaires in singapore. malays are nice people and are mainly misunderstood.
but will these racists still be like they are?
Congrats Ridzwan, for an insightful entry.
I agree with luckysingaporean when it comes to class division. Indeed, ppl dont discrimate just by the colour of the skin.
Since we are talking about the Malays, let me relate some discriminatory instances among the community itself.
I often see "pure" Malays talking down on other ethnic groups in the community especially the Baweanese. They freely believe the myth that this group practice black magic and some Malay parents deny the happiness of their children by disallowing them to mary Baweanese. The Baweanese is often seen as a lower class of the Malay "hierarchy"
Some successful Malays, who have reached a certain level of the corporate ladder or education do not wish to be associated with the "mats" and "minahs". To them, these ppl are a menace to the society and should just rot in jail. Havent they the slightest inclination that helping the less educated within the society is better than segregating them and label them as useless and lazy? One can claim a high level of intelligence but how intelligent is it to look down on others.
When it comes to integrating with other races, the Malays cannot simply demand understanding from other races by inviting them to mosques or invite them to cultural shows. The Malays have to also be proactive in knowing cultures and religion of other races.
Sometime ago, I was invited by a Christian friend to attend her wedding at her church. When I inform my Malay friends about it, they advised me against attending the wedding. Their reason? Muslims cannot go to church for fear of inviting controversy and they fear that I might like the religion and convert. These are proposterous mentality. If your Islamic foundation is strong, no Christian, Hindu, Taoist wedding will convert you. I am glad I attended the wedding and secure that friendship even further.
The point is, understand others and they will understand you.
that is very true, anonymous. pity you didnt leave your name. very insgihtful comment there.
in fact do check out his latest post where he takes a satire at the parallel and segregated lives of the so called mats and minahs. :P
Touching on the issue of Malays being 'poor', let me provide a simple example:
In a classroom, there is only one student who has A4 paper with him when it is needed the most. He is only willing to give a piece each to the rest in exchange for 10 cents eventhough they are his classmates. Nowadays, they call it entrepreneurial.
However, most Malays will gladly do so for free. And one wonders why Malays are not typically rich.
Good post, but some points:
Myth: Malays Receive Free Education
Just because NZ and Oz provide free education does not mean Singapore should. In any case, the claim of Malays to be natives is dubitable - when Raffles came there were, what, a few hundred Orang Laut? You also don't deny that they get free Primary and Secondary education.
Myth: Malays Will Betray the Country for the Neighbours in War
An internet poll is hardly representative. For example if you visit the Sammyboy Forums you'll find everyone hates the PAP, yet they got 66.6% of the vote. And you're going against our dear leaders by saying this, hurr hurr.
Myth: Malays are a Druggie Race
They still account for a disproportionate amount of drug users.
Myth: Malays are Lazy
My Malaysian friend tells me only cash crops grow well. Rice etc survive only because of subsidies. Also, Malays form a very small proportion of scholars. I'm not saying they're no Malay scholars, but they form a grossly disproportionate number of scholars.
I think we will never have tolerance until we have a free and open dialogue free of the fear of sedition laws and the like.
anonymous (4.58AM), let me add on by relating a short conversation I had with a Chinese colleague of mine. She's a mother to a boy. She told me, that everytime she accompanies her son to the playground, she observes that only Malay kids are most willing to share their toys with other children. Other kids do sometimes share, but they'll tend to be more watchful, unlike the Malay kids whom are more sincere. Malays are not rich, but Malays do have a big heart.
anonymous (10.28am), what you mentioned is true indeed. I'm a Malay, and we expect people from other races to respect and understand us, but why some Malays are hesitant to attend any events held in Churches or any other places of worship? Why some Malays are not willing to work in a Chinese working environment? We want to educate others on our festivals and observances such as Ramadan, but why some Malays have no freaking idea that the Mid-Autumn festival was just over a few weeks ago.
Mutual understanding have to be reciprocated in order to build trust and tolerance. Malays too have to remain open and adaptable to other cultures, while at the same time remaining solid to their roots. I guess our leaders have been preaching this over and over again.
Very well written. I think everyone who value racial harmony should read this blog. I have written my previous blog on how a Chinese can go through life without having coming into contact with any minority group. I titled the blog the Chinese 'problem'.
I have to say this is a very insightful and enlightening entry.
Well done.
it'll be interesting to see how the Malays in Singapore see themselves, are they first a Singaporean, then a Malay and lastly a Muslim or is it the other way around?
I empathise with Ridzwan. But he cannot answer for all the rest.
Chinese are now the top drug abusers! By sheer number, yes, absolutely. But as a percentage of the population? Just compare the numbers for abortions, un-wed mothers, divorce cases etc. Sheer numbers can be deceiving. Let's look again at the proportion per race figures.
But what am I talking about? There shouldn't be such outright segregation in the first place. As a nation we should be looking out for each other. And not end up counting beans.
And Indians are the most improved of the lot (Chinese, Malay, Indian and Other) going by average education level and income. But that's primarily due to the influx of Indian graduates from India as pointed out in a Straits Times article recently. Stealthly, amongst this talk of Chinese supremacy (you've gotta be kidding, we're still coolies) and Malay marginalisation, it's the Indians who are improving by leaps and bounds, both by quantity and quality.
BUT!!!! Before you label me a racist, I totally agree with you about the myths. There are all so last millennium.
I think what is most important is for each race to recognise their own weaknesses, own up to them and move on from there.
Stereotypes are here to stay, sadly. But to become one, that's sadder still.
Well, if it is only 1 student and the whole class without paper, you have to pay that student something, else he is going to continue supply paper and paper do cost money. Why promote the mentality that paper are for free?
Anyway, I'm not a Malay and I have also been a free paper supplier for quite a few of my regular classmates who never bring any paper at all to school, for the whole year. What has that got to do with anything?
I encountered similiar scenario jus like Anonymous(10.28am). One particular church invited my office to attend some event , being a non-believer , I accepted it open-heartedly having the mindset of enjoying myself there.
However , when I told my malay colleagues, they resented the invitation totally.Their reason being the ramadan month , they are not allowed and muslims are not allowed to enter other places of worship and etc. I felt something hitting me hard because , we are all young people and we should be more open . It does not mean by entering other places of worship will make u believe or even convert yourself.
I myself being in missionary schools , dun see myself converting and forgetting my own roots. it is just like they tell me certain traditions and customs during ramadan , I listen and I accept it , but it is really difficult for my colleagues to accept things of others...
Hi there..I'd blogged a similar thing at my bloggie @ http://mizunderstoodedme.blogspot.com/2006/10/life-in-my-home-my-country.html.I share ur sentiments about this racist thing. It's kinda sad to see this STILL happenning in Sg. We can't change the mind of racists when the govt is doing it so openly. MM Lee's comments to M'sia for eg. was really uncalled for. but it still happened. I wld write more but I may just be sued. ;o)
i really like your blog :)
props and kudos to you
it really helps to enlighten people like me who are unaware
like what you've said, 'Laziness is an attribute that exists in every race and creed.'
racial prejudice is also an inherent part in a multicultural society like singapore, perhaps even if theres no historical factor involved.
i believe that the difference in skin colour is merely a more convenient reason for Man to justify their dislike or even hatred for others, thats all.
like what you've already mentioned, 'Laziness is an attribute that exists in every race and creed.'
the same goes for racial prejudice; its an inherent part of a multicultural society like singapore, perhaps even without cultural or historical factors.
i believe that skin colour is merely a more convenient reason for Man to justify his dislike(or hatred) for others.
ok. since u r so protective of malays, can u explain to me:
1) How do you think these myths have come up? Is it arbitrary? (By the way, do u malay knows the meaning of arbitrary?). Do u think people made up the myths because they just dun like malay. Something must have happened that many many malay friends of yours does that ignite this "myth"!!!
2) When 9/11 happened, why is it that ALL of my malay friends are so happy of what their fellow terrorist brothers are doing? WHY???!!! Tell me why!!!
3) For those in NUS/NTU, why is it the malays are so extinct... WHY!!! Tell me why? is it because they are lazy??? Lazy to study? Giving birth and getting married at a young age, just like the old kampung days?
Singapore has had a very successful affirmative action program for Chinese Singaporeans starting from the citizenship rules of 1957 which gave citizenship to people who did not want to return to the famine of the Great Leap forward. Imagine if Singapore gave Singapore citizenship to all the Indons who were affected by Tsunamis and Earthquakes!! Followed by the SAP schools etc, details of which can be found at FEER.com
considering the institutional obstacles, Singapore Malays have done very well
Thoughtfully written. It would help to have such discourses more often. Think there has been too much self-censorship in Singapore.
Keep it up.
dude, i think you should delete all the comment entries before somebody make a police report.
thanks.
muhammad ridzwan,
i on the contrary believe that you should NOT delete the comments
u are doing national service by trying to bring up understanding and racial harmony
but if some people choose to be racist, so be it. they should dare to face the music.
while in uni, my tutorial group had 3 malays - more than its fair share of the nations mix of only 14% malays. so i do not know why the anon author above was saying that malays are missing from uni.
maybe he did not attend uni in the first place
dude,
if im you il seriously be considering to disable commenting or delete the entries. and i totally disagree on your point of malays being marginalised. i emphaise with the points u brought up but it's a rather myopic view so i really cant bring myself to agree.
huh? when did he say malays are marginalised? i thought its a public postings?
To vetomoko@hotmail.com,
I am surprised that for a person whom had Malay friends (noted from your 2nd point) had such deep seated notions with regards to another ethnic race within our community. My point here is, since they are racial myths, do you have any idea what does the word myth means? Perhaps I had put forth this question in a condescending attitude, yet, haven't you asked the same of the word arbitrary to Ridzwan here. What had given you the notion that he might not understand what that word means?
With regards your first point, indeed it might be true that some of the above myths had started with certain factual basis, which Ridzwan had already explained. While there are still certain undesirable elements within our ethnic races, or any racial composition in any community for that matter, no racial community could stand forth and state that they are without taint. When you have to wilfully attach 'many many malay friends of yours' into your comment, unless you have an official census to substantiate and to prove that its a fact and not a myth, you are merely an portraying yourself as an irresponsible ethnocentrist, with no clear regard or consideration for the feelings of your racially ethnic friends.
With regards to your second point, might I respectfully ask you, how many malay friends do you have? Would the total number of your Malay friends' views constitute to the majority of their ethnic group? I may not have the reasons or the understanding of their viewpoint behind the support of the 9/11 incident. But do note this, before displaying indignation at certain individual's reactions to this terrorist event, bear in mind that it does not represent the general view of their ethnic group. And being their friend, shouldn't you be in a better position to quiry their response, rather than to pose a question to Ridzwan which he had no answers to.
Last but not least on your final point, the last I remembered according to the demographic population census by our home ministry indicates that Malays are an ethnic minority within Singapore, and being lesser represented in NUS/NTU universities is not a surprise, since even the mathematical concept of statistical proportion applies to student composition within our tertiary institutes. Which in this case, answers your question of the seemingly low Malay representation in those institutes, rendering your accusations of lazy Malays as unfounded and irrelevant to this discussion. As for the other reason rendered by you with regards to young Malay marriages and births, what exactly is your point? If your portrayal of Malay families as incapable of proper familial planning, and thus result in a lack of representation in tertiary studies?
Please do formulate and render your points and questions in a coherent manner and not attempt to blur the issues at hand with mordant replies. While they serve not to improve the situation or one's views of bias within our society.
In case you might think that I am a Malay defending another, I happened to be a working Chinese adult, whom have a few capable Malay friends whom had graduated from our local universities. While I do not seek to alter to change anyone's perception or views, I'll not wish for whatever views which you might be holding to incur the wrath of the powers that be.
Lest you end up like some author of a particular blog named 'The Third Holocaust'.
Azmodeus:
Formulating and rendering points in a coherent manner does not protect one from jail time. This is one tragedy about Singapore - having laws on sedition means the intelligentsia are scared of commenting freely on pressing issues and thus the ground is ceded to people who have less care for their tongues (eg the Sammyboy Forums). If you ask people about the points you list privately I think they will be more forthcoming in giving a reasoned reply.
To Anonymous 10:12 PM
I am a Chinese. But over and above that, I am first a Singaporean. I share more similarities with my fellow Singaporeans than with the imagined Chinese diasporic community spread over the face of this planet. My loyalty - I'm sure this is the same for many other Chinese Singaporeans - is to Singapore.
Let our loyalty not be questioned.
the flames are fanned.
we all know what happened if you don't stop the fire.
yup, you will cause the haze.
that isn't good.
Agagooga:
Formulating and rendering points in a coherent would present your argument within a reasonable and logical context would be the first and most important prerequisite to any form of reasoned debate.
While I acknowledge the legal pressure exerted in the form of our state's sedition act. I would like to reiterate that should one have no reasons to incite racial/religious/community disharmony within the context of Ridzwan post in his comments. I do not see why anyone (notably the intelligentsia) should have anything to fear, unless they have an agenda or motivations to promote similar discriminations and ill feelings against one of our ethnic minority.
If one has faith in his own beliefs and convictions, one has nothing to hide or should be less forthcoming to answer my points. And that is my say to vetomoko.
What is Malay?
Seriously.
Just read this post and, if u dun mind, here are my comments.
Myth: Malays Receive Free Education
Not a myth cos they do received free education up to Secondary...
Myth: Malays Will Betray the Country for the Neighbours in War
I believe the myth occurs because Malays are a close-knit race. I have encounters hundreds of malay "friends" till now and the thing that irk me most about them is that they LOVED to communicate in bahasa melayu between themselves even while in the company of other non-malay friends. And when i asked them to switch to "channel 5" they will brush me off and chide me for KPO. And hence, till now, I do not have malay friends, only can be classified as acquaintances.
btw, ur declare of loyalty does not speak for all malays in Singapore. I have personally heard the "other versions". Maybe this alliance will be less strong as next few generations of Singaporean malays are born.
Myth: Malays are a Druggie Race
I think this is a myth as it is pure stereotyping.
Myth: Malays are Lazy
It should read Malay men are seen to be lazy. Why? Because the men are the "King" in the family and women are expected to serve them. To the extend that the men does not need to lift a single finger in domestic work. Also, the fasting worsens the phenomenon as most became lethargic during the fasting month although they are not to be blame.
ridzuan
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About the "Malays are lazy" myth! I AGREE 100% plus 1 !!!
I am a Malayalee Muslim of immigrant parents and have had the bestest time with the Malay Muslims here during my upbringing!
i thk alot of marginalisation of malays is due mainly to how the society's mindset is built upon..
if the dominant society in the world view minority this way, it's undeniable that in sections of the world, minorities in the sections will be viewed as such.
moreover, humans are animals, born to be selfish. no one is born to be kind. they learn to be civilised, but they are not born with it. ur parents and ur environment teach u to hate and accept certain values, but u are not born with it.
I agreed with the writer and something that I've always said to my friends.
The sad through is, being a minority in any society, you will always face some form of discrimination. This we cannot deny even though our Ministers trying so hard to cloud our mind of this.
Employment opportunity to be given to all races. This is what we hear right.
Solutions: Cannot put "Only Chinese need to apply" or "Open to Chinese only". BUT can put "Chinese language is a MUST" DUHHHH
Well, tell me if that is a solution. Thought English is our first language and business language. Why do we have to know Chinese language to apply for jobs?
Why? Because some companies deal with old people who might not understand English well. Don't these companies deal with Malay or Indian citizen who doesn’t understand English too?
Well maybe now China are doing so well so to do business with them, you must know how to speak Chinese, so all staff must know Chinese language.
I didn't know Bill Gates, Micheal Dell and so on can speak Chinese. Maybe all their management staff takes Chinese language course....
Last time, I had a Malaysian colleague who once told me that Chinese Malaysian are not treated fairly, that is why she come to Singapore to work. My reply to her is that being a minority on any countries, you will always get such treatment, so are we, Malays and Indians in Singapore! By the way, so much loyalty of Malaysian Chinese! Run to Singapore and complaint about their country.
Fact that the Government are simply closing their eyes and ears and will only do something (minimal of course) should someone complain.
Facts that if you call those service center and you will hear...
To listen in English, please press 1
To listen in Chinese, please press 2
....................
You have not selected any options
To listen in English, please press 1
To listen in Chinese, please press 2
Duhhh.... what happen to Malay and Tamil language, I'm sure we can use button 3 and 4.
Of course, this is private companies and the government can't do anything about it.... Duhhh... since when our government can't do anything?
Good example was during the previous SBS birthday celebration. They have a big banner at Pasir Ris bus interchange telling people about their celebration concert
"This concert is for you to show our appreciation for your support"
Kewl... but…100% of the singers are Chinese and not a single Malay or Indian singer, meaning, no Malay or Indian song. Meaning, Malay and Indian Singaporean are not supporting SBS.
Isn’t SBS part of Temasek Holdings? They are not a private company right? Or am I wrong?
Anyway, this comments getting too long here. But I would like the Chinese and the Indian to ask this:-
Should Singapore go to war with Malaysia, would you kill your own Chinese people, especially your relatives who are staying in Malaysia who happen to be fighting the war? Similar to the Indians, but you can also add India to your list.
For the Chinese, I don't think I need to add China because I don't think any of the Chinese Singaporean want to be associated with China.... because China sure don't want to be associated with Singapore Chinese.
On the economic front, we have also produced our fair share of millionaires. Salleh Marican , the owner of listed company Second Chance Holdings and Datuk Zain the owner of Prestige Marine Services are just two figures in the Malays society who have made headlines recently and done the country proud. Several other millionaires could be mentioned but it would take too much space in a short article such as this .
At least Malays are considered to be laid back which is no as bad as the prejudices held against Indians who are considered to be Snakes, Cheats, Crooks, Wife beaters, Drunk etc....
Well writen .. cleared up many of my doubts :D thanks
similar to other races in Singapore, the majority race namely chinese, do have various social ills and challenges facing its community..its just not being identified and labelled specifically..
Any calls for Malays to be integrated into the mainstream should be contextualised within the current majority race power play tactics. The Malays are the most accepting race on Earth - how else can we spawn the Straits Chinese, the Eurasians and the Peranakan Indians? We have accepted any immigrant race into our fold.
I laugh at anyone believing in the school history books stating that there were only a few Orang Laut. Singapore was once the seat of Malay civilisation. If only Harry and co will allow archeological diggings in Fort Canning (once the seat of the Sultan), Telok Blangah, Seletar, etc instead of trotting out a few Ming vases. As the Japanese have re-written their chequered past, so has Singapore denied its Malay roots and instead glorify an employee from the East India Company looking to save face for Mother England.
What we are all talking down here is nothing but an issue of culture.
Culture makes up almost the entirety of WHO you are - how you look, what you wear, how you sing/ walk/ think/ analyse. Not the skin/ hair/ eyes colour, or language you speak, or songs you sing. It's simply 'culture'.
So for all the myths which I can't explain thru and thru', I can only share with the lot of what I've observed -
1) Close-mindedness culture. Malays seem to not to embrace changes or innovations, be it technological, scientific, or cultural. The 'culture' of sticking to one's own culture and not accepting others are inherently strong in the group. Nevermind what the previous commentator has said about Malay's glorious past. The fact remains that even in a place like Malaysia, where they rule and dominate, they are still Reluctant to change in this rapid-changing world, so much so that they just can't up with the rest of the world! Speaking of which, the Chinese also has a glorious past of accepting other races after taking over the land, thus we having the Mongolia self-governing territory till this day.
As I'm typing now, the latest news about HOTA (Human Organ Transplant Act) is reviewed for S'pore Muslims. As I can recall, when this Act first reaches it's grasps to the Muslim Comm here, ripples and hoo-haas were being heard immediately. Why? Because they cannot accept changes, even though it IS beneficial for them.
2) 'Clutch-mentality culture'. On one hand, if hand-outs are not enough for them, they cry discrimination (if they're the minority), or poverty (if they're the majority). On the other, the moment the hand-outs are fulfilling and satisfying, they stop innovating and evolving, searching and researching, pushing boundaries and breaking-thru. In a word: they stop pushing themselves. Herein lies the role of 'culture' also, intertwined in their daily living habits. While some Malays can claim past glorious inventions and scientific breakthroughs, the Chinese have their fair share of this glory too. Compare the current days of China and Malaysia, and one can spot easily the nation that is hungrier for new heights and unchartered territories. Handouts for the PRCs for success? Not even close to it, pal.
3) Close-up culture. Slightly different from the first category. Combine the two cultures above and this is what you get. The result of this culture is the absence of sense of ownership, particularly for the environment and the society-at-large. For one's info, the police is currently looking for two Malays boys, believed to be aged 15, 16, who made prank calls about bomb in MRT station. As the majority, Chinese boys SHOULD be the ones doing this; instead it was done by the minority. Why? Because there is no sense of ownership/ belonging in this group, which in my view, is regardless of how many perks or subsidies they receive. In the words of Dr. M, the Malays are "ungrateful people".
Malays are quite into their own circle. Nothing wrong though, except that when one ONLY cares about his own people and not even the slightest for any other matter, to the extent of making prank calls despite such sensitivity, it says alot about that race. This identity is also manifested in groups who make a nuisance of themselves at the void decks, singing loudly and playing balls in the middle of the night, dirtying the clean and nicely-painted walls and breaking the lamps, and still laugh it out without an hint of shame or guilt.
As I'm typing now, one Malay youth has been convicted for multiple serious offences. This chap, on a fine night, decided with his two friends to kidnap a PRC prostitute, robbed and raped her, and pushed her out onto some deserted roads. Some kinda Jap pervert porn tactic I suspect. And so viola, our good friend really did scout for one and did it all out. Now he's facing long sentence for it. And oh, did I mention his mother being SHOCKED at the verdict and cried in the courtroom? What the...?
4) Family culture. Again, another form of 'closely-knitted' bonding with one's own people. How many times I've see aged women wearing tudungs and seemingly religious, walking around with their sons or daughters (or relatives' children), whom are highly tattooed and pierced and colourfully dyed and shabbily dressed? Quite a lot certainly. To me it's another form of 'family culture', something that covers one's own family Only. To the point of the boys (or young men)being unemployed, the lovingly mothers would still be as embracing as ever, feeding these males well and fine, without reprimanding the slightest. The next thing one knows, the well-fed guy lands up in jail, for he has too much time and money to spend on criminal activities.
For the Chinese, you can still be the 'Ah Beng' for all one cares, they at least (i) make noises at coffeeshops/ pubs/ discos; (ii) earn money to support themselves, even if it meant selling illegal VCDs, the money is still self-earned, and not being spoon-fed; (iii) stay away from parents and not walk down Orchard road as if it's some kind of proud family gathering; (iv) do not dirty places anywhere, anyhow. Most to most they dirty basketball courts by littering after a ball session, and not going round damaging street lights, walls, making prank calls, spraying graffiti.
5) 'Religion vs World' culture. This is running rampant, no matter how one may argue. And this not only applies to the Muslims who attend mosques meetings regularly, every Malay basically uses his religion whenever and wherever some issues cannot be resolved. HOTA as I mentioned above is one. Before that is the Madrasah's issue - hello? Your religious schools' curriculums/ subjects are NOT in touch with the world. Ans: "So? We still want it our way. Nothing will change." Until the No.1 man came down and spoke to all, once and for all, in a convention-style dialogue, that things can be pushed thru.
See how difficult it is to change the mindset of a Minority group in a 4-million population S'pore? I can now see how hard it's to change the Majority of Malaysia - the Malays, for sure!
The problem of this particular culture is that the Malays, or Muslims, cannot see that religion Must evolve and adapt to the changing surrounding. Instead, whatever they do, think, act, it Must be Their way. No other ways allowed. No other bends made. Just THEIR way.
This is the result we see today - a large portion within our Malay Comm is laying back and enjoying all their good, sweet times, not working hard and taking everything easy. They have their Muis, Mendaki and all the mosques delivering welfare hand-outs to and taking care of them. And so their laid-back attitudes are decorated and sweetened as 'relax', 'not kiasu'. While there might be some successful Malay figures, the number is far too small to be representative. Just like the Chinese - they have their fair share of crimes and ugliness, but as a whole? They dressed up every morning, looking fresh and determined in the mirror, wanting to make that day the best to be. And oh, did I say this attitude ALSO applies to the Minority Chinese in Malaysia, repeating the same attitude Everyday, riding small cc bikes to travel to and fro Malaysia and Singapore, coming over here to work as waiters/ sales girls/ cooks/ electricians?
So I say: it's really the Culture, my friend. That thing alone shapes up almost of one's mentalitiesss, thoughtsss and logicsss. So before one proceeds further to dwell in deeper, let us make it clear that it's ALL in the head and none in the environment, or world. Period.
PostScript (to the above mail): as I'm typing now, Nonoi's case is being heard in High Court.
Did I mention that the mother was a divorcee who got re-married with this current step-father cum child-killer?
Did I also mention that the accused's defence, as repeatedly declared by him, was to 'dip Nonoi's head thrice into a pail of water as punishment and, upon hearing the phone rang, LEFT HER THERE ALONE. When he came back, she was dead by drowning...'
My GAWDDDDD. Only the really, really low IQ people would have thought of these stoopid arguments. This really proves the general perception of the Malays right: a large number of lowly-educated ones, and dysfunctional families common in sight.
I do not know which to pity more; the first or the second.
Let it be known here, in case anyone wishes to argue of racial biasness, is that these two elements are LINKED.
When one is lowly-educated, probably due to 'bo-chap' culture (mentioned above) toward education/financial planning/ family planning/ future/ career/ life, things like these go wrong at every turn. When that happens, viola! Blame is pushed to the government (for not helping much lah), the Chinese (for taking up all the jobs lah), the public (for being uncompassionate toward their dire states lah)...everyone and thing else EXCEPT themselves.
And in case someone yells 'racial discrimination' again, let it be known that these 'father-harassing/abusing-daughters' thingy is NOT a rare sight amongst the Malays. As said, it's linked. From fathers climbing into daughters bed since young and sexually abuse her to 'religious' fathers asking their wives to offer their daughters for sexual release! How screwed up this group can be, I do not know!
And last be not the least, in case someone aruges about 'Huang Na' being Chinese, let it be known that it was a case of a Malaysian Chinese abusing a girl from a dysfunctional Chinese family FROM CHINA. Nothing concerning the local Chinese.
And comparing to the ratio of such cases to each population per se, it's to one's own unspoken understanding which group has the highest number of such occurrences. Sometimes the truth is really hurting.
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